How to Influence Others Don't Let Fear Hold You Back

Being afraid and refusing to step outside your comfort zone will not impact anyone's life. Life is too short to live in fear.

How to Influence Others Don't Let Fear Hold You Back

I made a hellish comeback from five years of racing to make millions, travel the world, and truly have lifestyle freedom.

It certainly wasn't always like this.

The first five years were indescribably frustrating, banging my head against the wall wondering what I was doing wrong. I'm still there, watching others pass me by.

I was consumed with self-blame and always blamed myself.

Can I report it?

I didn't have the confidence to make the phone calls or do what I needed to do because it was easier to drink and tweet than to actually do the thing I was afraid of.

Distract yourself.

Because the weight of personal growth was what finally got me started on the thing I was afraid of.

It wasn't a cram

People always ask me, "Did you do one thing?"

I want to say just one thing, but it was everything.

I learned everything I could.

I was actually just talking to a young guy on the phone, and listening to him, I was so inspired.

He never made any money in marketing, but he got all the training he could, he spent hours and hours every day absorbing the knowledge, and eventually he became successful.

That's what I did too. I read a book every two or three days. I thought, if I have to change my situation, I have to change myself first.

The contrast is incredible.

Making money is great, having time freedom is great. But the biggest benefit is being proud of who you've become, being comfortable in your own skin, being able to look in the mirror and love the person looking back at you, being able to walk into a room and feel like you can own the room, being able to walk into a tent and feel like you can own the tent.

It's a sense of power.

I'm not talking about power in the sense of controlling other people, I'm talking about personal power.

Why people fail

In the last 24 years, we have created a growing team with more than 1 million customers and pooling over 50 million dollars, but for those who earn $ 1 million, for those who fail. There are things that cannot be done.

What is it? Is it charismatic? no.

Is your sales ability high? no.

Are you good at socializing? no.

Is your family good? no.

Is there a culture? no.

Successful people are doing courage and fearing things.

Failed people, I have seen thousands of mistakes, but what they do not want to do is the reason they are afraid and that they can't win.

What happens if you don't do what you are afraid of?

It is clear that it will fail, but more importantly, every time, the small part of you dies.

Every time you are paralyzed by fear and do not know what you should do, the small parts of you die.

If you don't do what you know to do, you will gradually lose confidence every day.

Already enough.

Maybe you are the same as me. As I followed, I was blaming myself little by little. I had to decide that it was enough.

My question is when it is enough.

I think it's very aggressive. I want to win. If you are challenged, I want to respond to it.

Some people value causal retribution.

It was to see other people overtaking me.

Compared to successful players and looking at thousands of successful players, many of them were much more talented than the winning players.

If you look at them and compare your characteristics, backgrounds, reliability, all of them will have won the failed person. But why didn't they win?

They refused to fear.

Leverage yourself

You need to understand how to leverage yourself.

One of the things I was able to leverage myself was that many other people who didn't like me overtake me more than me.

It was an internal competition.

You have to decide the timing of uploading.

If it is not the driving force of competition, competition may be the driving force to help others.

If so, let's ask this.

How many people's life is now exactly the same because you refuse to know what you need to do?

Network marketing can have a positive impact on your life if you know what you should do and what you are afraid to do.

In my team, 550 people have achieved the average monthly ranking.

This is the number of people who have earned a lot of income.

If I didn't decide what I was afraid, it would not have had a positive effect on the lives of more than 5. 00 people.

Tell one person, inform one person, tell one person, tell one person, tell one person, tell one person, tell one person, and tell one person. Tell people, tell one person, tell one person, tell one person, tell one person, communicate to one person, tell one person, to one person, to one person. You can tell, tell one person, tell one person, tell one person, tell one person, have twice the effect, and start an exponential growth.

It hinders that fear affects people's lives

What will happen if you stay in your weaknesses, to cling to the fear, don't take a step from the comfort zone, and to forgive your fears than others' life?

You have no influence.

At the end of life is buried. A tombstone is built and eventually forgotten.

I remember returning to the sixth generation grea t-grandfather's tomb.

I don't know what I wanted to get by visiting the grave.

Looking at Thomas Bannister Morris, I suddenly came up with him, despite my oldest ancestor, no one. That's always the case.

I had to find him on Ancestry. com.

No one said his name. Why? He lived, died, and was immediately forgotten. Most people live, die, and forget them immediately.

The mission is to be immortal, leave heritage, and leave the impact that transcends me.

To make it possible, I had to take a step from a cozy place and do what I was afraid.

As I was now taking a step from your comfort zone, I had to take the other people to take a step from the comfort zone.

Not to be rich, but to affect and leave heritage.

Life is too short to influence and overcome fear.

Life is surprisingly short.

The Earth has been here for tens of millions of years, and you'll be here, 80, 90, and 100 if you're lucky.

Life is one shot. It's a flash. My life must not be everything.

If you do what you are afraid, you will live and your heritage can live.

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